What did Dr. Ruth mean to you?

Ruth Westheimer, the psychologist known as Dr. Ruth, died Friday at age 96 after a long career as America’s most famous (and probably least likely) sexologist.

For decades, she dispensed candid sex advice, often with a distinctive chuckle, always with a lasting emphasis on the idea that sex should be a source of joy, not shame. Millions of people listened to her radio shows, watched her television appearances, and devoured her books and interviews, reassured by the warmth and directness with which she approached taboo subjects. In later years, Dr. Ruth brought her signature candor and humor to bear on the ongoing crisis of loneliness.

Now The New York Times wants to hear from those who have benefited from her life’s work: What has Dr. Ruth taught you about sex, love and relationships?

If you have a story or memory to share about what she meant to you or how her advice helped you, please fill out the form below and tell us a little about it. A reporter may contact you for an upcoming article about Dr. Ruth’s legacy.