“Newfangled Love” podcast: You probably think about the limits of everything bad

KC Davis is a therapist and author known for her practical, empathic advice on coping with the mess, even if you feel too gigantic mess to take care of the mess in your home. Her Tiktok movies on this subject have been watched millions of times. But recently Davis talked and wrote about our relationships not only with objects in our lives, but also to people.

In his fresh book “WHO deserves your love: how to create boundaries to start, strengthen or end any relationship” Davis tries to disvensate the popular understanding of borders, saying that the concept is widely misunderstood. It offers a guide to creating and maintaining boundaries that support readers better move with their conflicts with other people.

In this episode “Newfangled Love” Davis tells us what we think we are wrong about the borders and how we should think about them. Reads a state-of-the-art love essay “Is my husband a wipers?” About a sudden dispute between several 20 years to their relationship and a conversation about how borders can support in releasing such situations. Davis also tells us how the boundaries helped to heal her own relationship with her father.

The author of today’s essay, Lidija Hilje, has a fresh novel that will appear in July entitled “Leaning towards the sea.“

In the upcoming episode about the location sharing, the Newfangled Love Team wants to hear the history of location sharing. Has something happened that made you regret sharing your location? Was there a moment when you were grateful that you had? Where were you? What happened? How has your relationship changed as a result? The deadline expires on May 1. The instructions for the message are here.

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“Newfangled Love” is run by Anna Martin and produced by Reva Goldberg, Emily Lang, Davis Land, Amy Pearl and Sara Curtis. The program is edited by Gianna Palmer, Lynn Levy and Jen Poyant, our executive producer. Production management is by Christina Djoss. The program is mixed by Daniel Ramirez and recorded by Maddy Masiello and Nick Pitman. It contains the original Pat McCusker music, Elisheba Ittoop, Dan Powell, Carole Sabouraud and Sonia Herrero. Our motive music is made by Dan Powell.

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