“White Lotus” emphasizes the way antique friends bring out our worst self

Competitive tension is coming when three women meet an attractive and flirtatious “health mentor”, Valentin, and a tangle appears. “Why did you keep pressing him, since it was always your plan to connect with it yourself?” Laurie demands Jaclyn, excluding when he doesn’t receive a satisfactory answer. “It’s as if no one has ever changed,” he says.

Dr. Campbell said that uncertainty is jet fuel that drives this kind of dynamics. Childhood friends arise at a time when individuals, especially adolescent girls, usually have lower self -esteem. She said that at this age we can compare with our friends and look for more external validation. “I hope that before you get to adulthood, you work on this uncertainty.”

But spending time with your antique friends who could solve their own self -esteem problems can pull you back into this unhealthy comparative mind, she said, and suddenly “you are trying to dress to feel better.”

When viewers get to know the group, they find out that Jaclyn was a leader at school. During this holiday, he takes this role again, paying for the journey and deciding when the group goes out to the party and who should connect with whom. The other two fall. Julianne Holt-Lunstad, a professor of psychology and neurobiology at the University of Brigham Juvenile, said that groups of friends, which often contain this kind of infertical roles, said Julianne Holt-Lunstad, a professor of psychology and neuronauk. Maybe “someone is more leader or comedian,” she said. This is not always a bad thing, but it is arduous to evolve in the eyes of those who know you in one specific role.

This is how it is 28 -year -old Sacha Piscuskas, assistant to the film set of the film set in Recent York, every time she spends time with three close friends whom she knew from 4 years in her adult life she learned to open, but when she is with these friends, she returns to a calmer.