February 01 2025

Parish therapist
Parish therapist
Alicia Muñoz, LPC, is a certified therapist of couples and the author of four books, including “stop thinking about your relationship: Break a series of restless chewing to nourish love, trust and connecting with a partner.”

Image by Sidney Morgan / Stocks
February 01 2025
As adults, we are not always good in unrehearsed inventing ideas for a date on the spot, although we are aware of the need for a playful – or stuffy – connection with our significant second.
After a day spent checking items from the list of things to do, juggling duties and managing stressful situations, it can be challenging to gather innovative energy to find out what we are in the mood or what we can enjoy during downtime.
We hope that these ideas for the night – organized by the mood – tempt you to try something novel or inspire you to develop your own alternative idea. And if you and your partner seem to be in different moods, you can read these lists to create a hybrid activity that corresponds to both (and in accordance with the CDC guidelines and guidelines for social distance!).
Romantic ideas for dating to really connect:
- Return to the place where you first met or had your first kiss, and recreate the experience with the said relationship about what you did not dare to reveal yourself at that time.
- Prepare a picnic with cheese, crackers, grapes or other delicious snacks. Find a cozy park, lie down on a picnic blanket and read poetry from books such as books I love her wildly Or Thesun and her flowers While staring together at the clouds.
- Set a pleasant sensory experience for yourself, which is based on all five senses: sight, sound, touch, taste, smell. Peel the lemon and hold the skin under your partner. Ask them to expose your tongue and put a little vanilla, cinnamon or other taste they like there. Go the inside of the wrist or elbow gently with a piece of silk or give them a tender “bite of love”. Play a song for them. Show them a pretty photo.
- Look at the older photos of you and remember together.
- Ask yourself insightful questions. My book, Quizu Par: 350 funny questions to get the energy of your relationshipHe has a lot of them. Then talk about what you have learned.
Amusing ideas for dating to be stupid and risky:
- Do something in nature that you haven’t done before: collecting apples, collecting blackberries, looking at the river, journey, cycling, canoeing or canoeing.
- Order an inexpensive karaoke microphone and a city singing competition in your living room.
- Dress in your clothes and change the roles/tasks/schedules for 30 minutes.
- Forceful in the pots and pans in the kitchen and make a stupid song.
- Set the ping-pong net on the dining room table and play a few matches.
- Meet with another couple at the football tournament, playing SpikeBall or Frisbee.
- Rent scooters and spend a few hours in the local skate park (with helmets and protective equipment).
Unique ideas for dating, to mix things:
- Take part in the outdoor music concert or watch the movie outside.
- Together with your partner, allow yourself to direct a 20-minute relaxing visualization, YouTube respiratory or meditation.
- Make an appointment in a “furious room” in your area (e.g. Rage Cage in Fresh York) and destroy some furniture, China, printers and other breaking the pages. If there are no other safe and sound, high -energy venting methods in your area. Then do something entertaining and pleasant together, such as hugging, kissing, dancing or skipping the street holding hands.
- I agree to the place where you want to visit, such as northern Italy, Kauai, Cairo or in the south of France. Then create a meal that reflects local cuisine and visit the location via Google maps or, visiting a virtual museum or landmark. Discover a dinner table conversation with phrases and words of the language that is spoken there, like “Very good,” Or “Thank you very much, honey,” Or “Ant Habibi. “
- Dress in fancy clothes and go to the real estate auction. Ask at least once for something you like.
Innovative ideas for the date to get your hand:
- Paint your fingers and/or nails with great colors.
- Sketch a portrait, trying to simply enjoy mutual attention and releasing all expectations for the result.
- Co -create Excellent corpse Using the words of drawings … Maybe when drinking your favorite wine, beer or non -alcoholic drink.
- Put on bathing suits, fill several balloons with water and fight on the ballon outside or in the shower. Then hug a immense towel.
- Take a chocolate lesson online (there are a lot of free movies on the Internet), or seriously and choose a course Chocolate school become official chocolates.
Sexy ideas for dating, for a different manual type:
- They change on the floor, while one person lifts his hand above different parts of the other body. Share what you have experienced later.
- Get your eyes and see how long you can kiss without touching.
- Take a bath or shower together. If you do it often, mix it by doing something that you normally do not do: washing your partner’s hair, back or fingers.
- Give yourself a massage with candles, music and massage oil.
- He had a change slowly and playfully to his favorite song.
Date Night, for indolent, comfortable times:
- Order glowing stars, put them on the ceiling, and then lie down in bed together, creating novel names of the constellation based on what you see.
- Cook a novel meal together (or something entertaining and plain, like Tacos). I agree who the chef is and who the chef’s sous. Eat a meal somewhere extremely, for example during a fire escape or on the floor in the living room.
- Feel comfortable somewhere and write a list of phrases describing various things you love in yourself, for example: “You are heated, you are sweet, I love your mind, you have the best smile of every person I know, you are so thoughtful that you smell amazing, I like it It is how you hug me, etc. “Then he expresses what you love, reading everything on your letter aloud.
- Get in pajamas, make popcorn and watch the movie. If you already do this, mix it, touching in a novel way, hugging, spoon or interlacing your legs.
- Make a tickling and see who can resist laughter for the longest time.